π Stoas near [[@agora/2023 05 13]]
π HedgeDoc at https://doc.anagora.org/2023-05-13
π Etherpad at https://stoa.anagora.org/p/2023-05-13
πΉ Jitsi at https://meet.jit.si/2023-05-13
π Node [[2023-05-13]]
β³ π Resource [[@agora/2023 05 13]]
- [[flancia]] all day!
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[[flancia meet]]
- [[java assignment]]
- [[apl]]
- [[nodeinfo]]
- [[mycomarkup]]
- [[sourcehut]]
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[[git email]]
- Sent trivial patch to [[mycomarkup]] to learn how to send email patches -- worked well after the initial gmail setup.
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[[social coop]]
- want to advance the wiki-alpha setup, maybe finish it?
- and start hacking on the ansible recipe to move registrations to join.social.coop
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[[buddhism]]
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a typical mala has [[108]] beads, and the reason is combinatorial :)
- 6 senses * (past, present, future) * (good, bad, neutral) * (internal, external)
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a typical mala has [[108]] beads, and the reason is combinatorial :)
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[[taixu]]
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is incidentally one of the buggy Agora locations that redirect to Wikipedia automatically
- I like it as a potential feature maybe but it should feel more optional ;)
- fix
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is incidentally one of the buggy Agora locations that redirect to Wikipedia automatically
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[[agora]]
- So many bugs to fix :)
- But first, I want to add [[mycomarkup]] support!
- #push [[AG]]
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Triggering [[resistance]] in someone makes it more likely that they will commit to the position they talked about- after they've talked about it. So, it will make it harder for them to [[change]] if they talk with a position against the change.
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"[[Turn]] in the [[direction]] of the skid" while [[driving]] on [[ice]]. Once [[traction]] is established, then turn.
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The person who is to be changed has to be the one to [[talk]] about why they should [[change]].
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To [[change]], [[people]] need to see a difference between what they [[want]] and what is.
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When something someone is doing goes against something they deeply [[want]], it is what they are doing that will [[change]].
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- Mis[[alignment]] can be necessary for [[change]], since it is the first step to noticing a [[difference]] between what they [[want]] and what they do. collapsed:: true
- [[Change]] can only come to people if a part of them really does [[want]] to change.
- [[Change]] is easier when it is drawn out gently, instead of pushed.
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A kind of [[talk]] to people to help [[change]].
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- [[Accept]] where people are. [[Listen]] to them to hear where they are.
- Help [[explore]] what they [[want]] until they see a difference between what they want and what is.
- Go in the direction of their [[resistance]] to [[change]]. This is [[Kuzushi]].
- Give [[energy]] to anything they say that [[moves]] toward [[change]].
- When something is seen as a [[block]] to their [[want]], they will be more likely to [[change]] it.
- The perceived [[difference]] between what they [[want]] and what is has to be amplified to bridge the difficulty of [[moving]] to get what they want.
- Ask about wants that might be blocked by the thing they are doing that needs to [[change]].
- People are most persuaded by what they say. What do they [[notice]] that they say to themselves? What feels interesting to them? What are they excited at having said?
- When there is [[push]] back, [[pull]] and [[move]] to [[change]] an [[angle]] very slightly.
- Involve them in solving the [[problem]]. The [[solution]] has to be theirs, for them, to [[trust]] it.
- When there is [[push]] back, [[shift]] to another [[angle]].
- Someone cannot be [[responsible]] for [[change]] if they think they cannot change.
- Offer help to [[change]], and give them the [[choice]] of taking it or leaving it.
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- A [[talk]] can move toward [[harmony]] or [[dissonance]].
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When something someone is doing goes against something they deeply [[want]], it is what they are doing that will [[change]].
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To [[change]], [[people]] need to see a difference between what they [[want]] and what is.
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The person who is to be changed has to be the one to [[talk]] about why they should [[change]].
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"[[Turn]] in the [[direction]] of the skid" while [[driving]] on [[ice]]. Once [[traction]] is established, then turn.
- May 13, 2023 ** 15:18 uln industries
we build hardware and software tools for everyday use
goals:
- beautiful
- modular
- usable
- free
- uncompromising performance
- seamless install
non-goals:
- customization. our defaults will be so good you won't want to change them. plugins should be external apps.
- technical support. we work on commission or pro bono and give away free software. we cannot make an promises to help you.
- universal/web/your device support. working at higher level abstractions to support more platforms compromises on performance.
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